According to him, saying Nigerian men like condom is an oxymoron because on the list of things Nigerian men like, putting on a condom falls somewhere near going shopping and changing diapers.
“But women are not very different either, I am sure you have heard that rural-like argument that sex with a condom is like eating sweets without removing the cover”, he said, adding that there are common excuses men give not to use condoms.
IT RUINS THE MOMENT
According to him, the following are the excuses men, especially Nigerian men give for not using condoms; they say, wearing condoms during sex ruins the moment.
“There are some people who feel as if the moment had been spoiled just because he needs to put on his condoms first before proceeding.
According to them, diverting attention during sexual intercourse is a huge turn-off and very undersirable”, he said. He added that; “putting on condoms during the course of sexual activity already spoils the act since it contributes to cases of acquiring STDs and unwanted pregnancies.
“There’s the thing called pre-ejaculation before the climax. It basically puts both of you in danger. Rather than complaining on ruining the moment, why not put it on even before the sexual activity. Also, get use to putting on a condom and thinking about sex while you are doing it. This way, you will stay aroused and it will become part of sex, not an interruption”.
‘I LIKE IT NATURAL’
Sex with a condom can make you feel natural but many Nigerian men like flesh to flesh sex. Having sex without a condom may seem natural but it puts you and your partner(s) at risk of erection. Some men find that using a condom can make their erections last longer, you can try the new superfine condoms.
‘I LOSE SENSITIVITY” OR THE PRESENCE OF CONDOMS AFFECTS SEXUAL SENSATION’
One of the reasons why Nigerian men don’t like to wear condom is because it decreases sexual pleasure. For them, sensitivity is reduced which can definitely affect their performance.
‘IT AFFECTS MY PERFORMANCE’
Some people find it hard to keep an erection with a condom on. This is often because the first time they try to use a condom is when they are just about to have sex. They find that their erection starts to go, they get worried about it, then lose their erection and associate it with the condom. People can also feel anxious about what their partner might think.
‘I DON’T LIKE THEM’
Some people don’t like condoms because they have had a bad experience with them in the past. There are plenty of brands that offer a variety of condoms to suit your needs. There are textured, flavoured, and coloured condoms, condoms that make you and your partner tingle or feel hot, make you look bigger or help you stay erect longer and all these condoms protect you from STDs and unwanted pregnancies.
‘MEN DON’T WEAR CONDOMS BECAUSE IT IS HARD TO PUT ON’
Most Nigerian men don’t like to wear condoms because it gives them a hard time putting it on. This includes wearing it the other way around or unrolling it improperly which leads to breakage. If it’s your first time to wear condoms, then this is understandable. But if you have had sex for quite some time now, then this is a lame excuse for you not to wear condoms. First-time condom users may experience difficulty and the answer to this is practise.
You can practice doing this when you are alone and when you get it right, then there’s no excuse for you not to wear one in your next encounter.
‘WEARING CONDOMS MAKES ME FEEL BORED DURING SEXUAL INTERACTION’
Another lame excuse that Nigerian men give so as not to wear condoms is that it makes them feel bored. Since there is decreased sensation brought about by the rubber, men tend to get bored when having sex and may not get satisfied with the activity. They also believe that the use of condoms also contributes to dryness making the activity less satisfactory.
sourced from city people
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